This post is going to be rather offensive and personal to a certain extent. But I believe there are many girls out there who would be agreeing with what I am about to tell everyone here. So if you are not ready for a totally sarcastic judgement and view on these "foreign delicacies", please stop reading from here onwards. And if you belong to that group, I apologise, because this is my very own opinion.
Readers like you, may have noticed that my relationship status has recently been changed. Well, that being that, I have a lot to say. But I wrote it all out on my more personal blog - twaddle@livejournal. You can hop over if you want. But read with a open heart. I try to keep it separated, so it wouldn't tarnish this blog.
Well, the inspiration behind this post has definitely got to be from what happened to me, personally. I am sorry, but this is just my prejudice against certain breeds out there.
Now, here comes my gun powder.
It is a noticeable trend that the amount of thai clubs/discos and pubs are highly increasing in Singapore. Yes, they are of a profitable business, in the long run as nightclubs like these never dies. Unless something else takes over.
Being a "once" party-goers myself, I have never stepped foot in any of these sleazy places, despite having friends who visit them rather regularly. From what I have heard from both sexes, telling me what happens in the club, I am pretty surprised. It is as if we have a little "thailand" in our Singapore - multi-racial country.
Well, they sure have a certain level of entertainment. A chill place for friends to mingle and relax while watching performances of different kinds - singing, dancing and whatsnot. Drinks are definitely cheaper over at these "Thai" places and the girls there, I would say, a lot of a softer personality, less opinionated than us Singaporean girls (who like to sell ourselves up there).
Stereotyping - They are easy going and very friendly. The "Thai" attitude. They can talk to you about anything, because you will never know anything about the real them. So what do they have to lose when you are there crying your souls out or desperate for 11 minutes in heaven?
From what I have heard thus far, many of
our youngsters, mainly boys from 18 - 25 (singles/attached) are
constantly visiting these places, weekly, splurging on these girls. By
buying a flower garland or buying them drinks so that these girls would
go sit beside them and spend the "night" with them.
Well, "night" in this refers to either, the entire club opening hours "night"
or... an after service. Usually at no cost, if the girl feel
comfortable with the guy. I mean, its a mutual thing. But I know, guys they somehow just think with their dickheads (pardon my language) but seriously, are
the girls that willing to get laid by these Singaporean men?
Do you really like sharing a girl with so many other guys? Please remember to bring your condom and wear it if you already had plans to be laid by girls from these sleazy clubs.
If you're guilty as charged, as
you're reading this, then have you asked yourself, what difference does
it make from visiting a prostitution? What difference does it set you
apart from those "rich dirty pimps" that sits in a KTV/nightclub with
hostesses? Definitely monetary wise, you will be able to save a whole lot.
But.. seriously, what else is different from them?
Well, for a start,
maybe you will be tainted as the "young, poor, horny" dude that goes
to thai club. I'm not saying all of you, but there must be a handful of boys who visit, just to get laid at the end of the night.
I give the thai hostesses here the benefit of doubt that they are nice people, but don't you forget, a girl has two side. They bring you to heaven, and can drop you back on earth, or drag you to hell. Don't be too naive by their deceiving smile and companionship. When they suck your money, you see who cries.
If the friendship turns into a relationship, then I would congratulate you, and the government, cause we will have 1 more person becoming a PR, increasing our population. But, really? With our inflation rate and housing property rates, you think you can survive by living off your parents?
Be careful of shot gun marriages. Condoms and contraceptive pills are highly recommended (from me).
Be careful of shot gun marriages. Condoms and contraceptive pills are highly recommended (from me).
Are Singaporean girls really that difficult to talk to? I am not? At least, that is a proven fact isn't it! (HINTS: WEEKEND DUDE).
The Singapore scene is turning into such disastrous state.
So what Singaporean men are we left with? What happened to true love? Now do you know why, all Singaporean ladies have given up hope in finding a local men? Just look at our younger generation.
pfft. Hold on tight to your boyfriends/fiancé and husband my dear ladies out there. You never know when a guy will fall for a vixen.
Hopefully, this entry got some of you back in reality for that split second.
xx
twaddle.livejournal.com
I totally agree with you Babe... I'd never been to a club yet but if I ever do, it'll NEVER be a Thai club. It's too sleazy.
ReplyDeleteAnd please don't be upset over negative things in life, you're too good for that :) You deserve better ♥
Hope to see you soon!